I need some advice from an adult ...

[[VN]Hunter95]

Thanks guys for all the support. Feel much better now Thanks alots.

[Nate]

All i can say is get out of the situation, move on, let the other person move on, even if it's difficult
Things will sort themselves out in good time. Its only a tiny part of your whole life. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself, be an independent person

[Jackie]

This story is very confusing, sounds like you are trying to pick between your mom and your girlfriend who is also your cousin? But any ways I guess I'll give you my advise. Start out fresh with someone else, if it's bad now it'll be bad later on. Your mom has been here for your whole life taking care of you. Take care of her now. Things get better, it'll be hard now but it gets better. It may not seem like you'll ever find someone else but you will. If you give it time you'll find someone just as good or better. May not seem like it now but you will. May seem a little cheesy but it's true.

[[VN]Hunter95]

Thanks you Nate, Thanks you Nicould. That's mean alots to me ...

We just had our last chat, she said that she doesn't want to forget me, she want me to wait for 1 year so she can finish high school then she will talk it out to my parent, her parent too, I don't want to promise anything I can't keep,I also don't want to keep my hope high, 1 year is a long time, anything can happen... This is hard...

[Fenix]

What a story! Well, like others said, you should try to forget her, at least for now. Go and call your friends to have fun with you somewhere (like a party), meet new people (best thing to do), you will find someone else, keep your mind busy with other things and everything will be okay again. It's very difficult to forget about someone you love, but if it's necessary, you don't have any other choice. Life has ups and downs. Let the time tell what is better for you.
Ps: If you think that there is a chance about you being with her, then yes, you shouldn't give up.

[Love420]

OH FUCK HAHAHHAHAHAHHHAHHAHA

[Dex]

Learn to Lucid Dream. rofl

[[GRX]Mazunga7]

First of all , I feel good to see this kind of topic , at last now i can say i don't play with bots , instead i play with humans who have a heart .
Nvm , I know what it feels like cuz i have been through the same during my school days when i was a fat fuck .
No matter what you have to take care of your mother , she comes first !
About the girlfriend - see dude with time everything heals , and i am saying it not because some big philosopher said it but because it actually does .
My friend lost his lil bro , life is still going on for him .
My mom lost her bro , life goes on for her .
My dad lost his parents , life goes on for him .
and with time love , humans , people become a beautiful memory of your life and life goes on .
You have been searching the internet all day long on "how do i forget her?" and related things?
You have been asking your friends advice for the same?
and you have tried every single thing to do so?
yes you must have and it is actually very normal . You will have to live like this for a while and give yourself some time .
Indulge into other activities , try to make random friends , try to talk off-topic things , spend quality time with family , JOIN THE GYM!
pursue your passion , learn new things and keep yourself busy . with time everything will be allright .
Maybe after some years you might think i was such a newbie earlier or everything might change ?
You just have to l;eave it on the law of probability .
Be positive , give time and everything will be allright . Opt for law of attraction !

[[VN]Hunter95]

Thanks Fenix, There is a tiny chance to get back to her, if It fail I'll hurt her more with bigger pain, you know how it's work, the longer the bigger the pain,I don't want to take that chance, the risk is just too big that's why I broke up in the first place. Guess I should try to forget here even though I don't want to ....

@Love420, Yeah you'r right, life does suck huh ... well look like I just have to deal with life then, no matter it's take me up or down. Thanks man

@[GRX]Mazunga7 Thanks man, time does heal everything but she don't accept the fact that we HAVE TO break up, she ALWAYS try to pull me back. I don't know how to act, I'm her cousin,she said that "if we can't be a couple, atleast chat with me as my big brother (cousin)...", ye so I chat with her, try to keep distance... then she try to talk about "it" slowly drag me closer , I push her away, I don't know how many time she want me to say "I love you" or how many time she said she missed me or how much see want to be back with me... I just stay silent when It's come to that, I don't want to get her hope high .I just want to chat off topic but she just ... I don't want her to know I still have feeling for her, that will make her have hope in our relationship ... That is HARD ......

[hiyah]

Cousin fucking leads to retard babies. Stay the fuck away from your cousins vagina!

[discplex]

Cousin? Dude, step away.

[CarBonGeaR]

Well I'm no adult but I've been in a relationship so maybe that'd make me qualified enough to comment on this post.
First of all I feel sorry for you because my mom is supportive with such things. I would suggest you rather talk to your mom about this. Trust me mate mom's give the BEST forking advice in this world. Listen to your mom. If you think your mom isn't doing justice just talk to her, make her understand. If there's no other go, just let her go man. Well It took me months to get over my first crush, but still, I managed to do it! It's difficult man, I know. Just divert your mind by doing something else. Play SA-MP, go out with friends, watch a movie, eat a burger ^_^ . I HIGHLY recommend you hang out with friends. Ok so just forget everything man.
And about what Mazunga said, I felt happy to see such a post too ^_^ Humans still play gamerx haha xD Just get over it man. God must've built someone for you. I'm pretty sure. Hope this helps. Peace!

[HiggZ]

hmm this...m8
ye must each go their way and because it considered incest and from what I've seen so far bet you that you will not want to continue this way.
because then if you follow this path you will regret it, you will both feel ashamed of what you did and believes've had many friends who have gone through similar situations and later repented much and now has trouble dating because they were traumatized.
then moved on and Forget this forbidden love.

[Zotty]

Cousin fucking leads to retard babies. Stay the fuck away from your cousins vagina!

Hiyah's right, and i'm sure you wouldn't want that in your life, everyone deserves to live happy.
She's you're cousin and you're going to almost spend your life seeing her, talking to her as she is part of your family.
would you still want to be stuck like this or explore the world and the people in it.
Get to know more people, there are plenty out there and if you don't, you wont have experience or learn a thing about how people can knock you down and change your life because that's basically how life goes on. Life will knock you down and you have to be ready for it.
Stand up straight
Head high
and move on
You have something big ahead of you !

[[VN]Hunter95]

Cousin fucking leads to retard babies. Stay the fuck away from your cousins vagina!

@HiggZ
I knew that.
Well, we are cousin but not Blood-Related, My Blood Related Uncle is married to his wife, and his wife (My aunt) had a daughter of her and someone else, yeah, something like that, I would never come for her if we were blood related ...
We haven't seen eachother for 16 year, yeah, 16, no joke, it's real ... she's like my childhood friend ....

@CarBonGeaR
Yeah, mom always the best when it's come to these thing.

@Zotty
It's because I'm her cousin that it's hard for me to act, I don't want to hurt her so much that when ever we see eachother we just act like stranger, I don't want that to happen, but she keep pulling me back to her, I still trying to push her away... Every 10 or 20 minutes she still say that she miss me, don't want to forget me and how much she want me back, I just replied with cold answer while trying to hide my true feeling for her and watch her swallow the sadness I slam to her face. I don't know what I'm doing is right or wrong anymore, I just want us to end right now so she don't have to take a bigger pain later on, thinking about her having such pain is killing me I don't want that, I cried alone so much now I don't think I feel the pain I having any more ....