It's not my attitude towards you, I just can't go to X[M4] Hi bro, you so awesome bro, can we be friends ? no, I won't do that, as I never did, ofcourse it won't be by a nature, by it won't be by a talk that I should start only to be friend with someone, not you and not any other person.
I already made some friends, I don't remember how we could do it, but I'm pretty sure either of the parts didn't talk to the other just to be friends, it just happens, it needs time, something happens and the relation start growing.
But ofcourse, I won't go to each [M4] and start talking with him only because I made application so he goes to the forum and vote "yes" for me, I just can't do that, it's losers way to get accepted, if I don't accepted in your clan it's really fine, but I won't start talking with someone just so he accepts me, not gonna happen.